My 6-year-old daughter loves to make cards: Birthday cards, Get Well Soon cards, I Love You cards, Thank You cards, Christmas cards in English, Chinese, and Korean.
In addition to being thoughtful gifts, handmade cards are a wonderful opportunity for child-led reading and writing practice in preschool, elementary school, and high school.
Would you believe that she has rarely used writing worksheets?
We joke that she’s a mini Hallmark factory, pumping out personalized cards since she was around age 3.
Therefore, she has not needed to use worksheets.
Through card-making, my daughter has been motivated to read and write, because the purpose is relevant and tangible to her!
Although she hit her reading and writing milestones early, learning English, Chinese, and Korean did not happen magically overnight.
We started when she showed interest in letters and Chinese characters.
Gradually, she learned through Montessori-inspired, play-based teaching strategies.
Many parents have asked about my daughter’s writing videos on Instagram, so I am going to explain how we have used greeting cards to boost literacy skills over the past few years!
These snapshots of memorable ideas happened over 3 years.
Initially, they were special occasions, and over time, the frequency increased with natural momentum.
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How we use handmade cards for reading practice
When my daughter first learned to read and write, we began to make cards instead of buying them at the store.
Our cards are for family members and friends.
My daughter has also made cards for her toy animals, and she now enjoys writing to her Chinese pen pal every month!
Initially, I would invite my daughter to help me make greeting cards.
Since children love to copy their parents, she was excited about participating in something that seemed important.
These days, card making is part of the regular routine; my daughter is eager to come up with her own messages!
Here are examples of fun ways reading practice has been incorporated at different stages of my daughter’s development.
1. Dot sticker word matching
For the birthday cards above, I wrote syllables of each Korean word on different dot stickers.
My daughter matched them to the Korean words on the cards to form a sentence.
We have also used dot stickers to match English letters and Chinese characters.
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2. Cut, paste, and match messages into a birthday card
Cutting and pasting are important fine motor skills for preschoolers.
When they cut around words with eye-hand coordination, they are exposed to the print on the paper.
These cut-out words can then be used to match words on the greeting card!
Note: If your child does not yet have the coordination for cutting and pasting, you can use the aforementioned dot stickers or adhesive address labels.
You can also use a large shape punch or simply help your child cut.
Remember that every child is learning at her own pace, and we want to offer activities that fit their abilities and build confidence!
The above photo features a Chinese birthday card that my daughter and I made for my auntie with lyrics for Happy Birthday in Chinese!
In addition to reviewing important birthday vocabulary, we also talked about the card’s shapes and colors in Mandarin Chinese.
Here are Korean birthday cards that we made using the same word-matching strategy, this time with balloons and flowers.
Tip: If your child loves cars, animals, or food, incorporate those elements into the birthday cards!
Ask them what they want to include in the card! A child’s interest is a key motivating factor for learning.
3. Color in block letters and numbers
We also have written English, Chinese, and Korean letters in cards for my daughter to color.
After seeing us write so many block letters over the years, she now enjoys making her own!
4. Cut out letters in different materials for handmade cards
In addition, creating letters with different textures is a fun way to learn new letters, characters, and words because of the extra sensory input.
Felt is an eco-friendly, biodegradable material that is easy to find at the dollar store, Amazon, and craft stores!
Writing practice with handmade cards
Here’s how writing practice has evolved over the years through handmade cards!
1. Tracing with various markers
When my daughter first began to trace, I often used a black or other dark-colored marker to write the words.
Then I would have her trace the words with a highlighter or other light-colored marker.
This was successful because:
- To my daughter, my black marker was less exciting than the neon highlighter colors
- Tracing with highlighters allowed for the adult handwriting to stand out. This meant that my daughter would see how the letters should look, she didn’t have to worry about making mistakes with her writing, and the card receiver could actually read the message!
As my daughter’s handwriting improved, I began to write words with light-colored markers while my daughter traced with dark markers.
2. Copying words for handmade cards
After plenty of practice with tracing English and Korean plus a good understanding about stroke order for memorizing Chinese characters, my daughter can copy most words on her own!
Although, I have tried to introduce Chinese worksheet tracing to perfect her writing, she refuses to do them.
However, I’m not going to force worksheets, because I’m grateful that she’s motivated by copywork and showing great writing progress!
3. Writing messages independently
Finally, the goals of writing by memory, communicating, and journaling are so rewarding!
Here are beautiful tri-fold Thank You cards that my daughter made in Korean and English at age 4 years.
“Thank you” was among the first words she learned to write independently!
Last but not least, here is one my favorite handmade cards from my daughter!
The message was written in simplified Chinese at age 5.
Where to get cute mailbox toys?
Our cute, inexpensive toy mailbox has been a great motivator and reminder for everybody to send messages to each other!
My daughter is curious about seeing what I write to her, and she loves to seal envelopes and lift up the flag to let us know that we have mail!
We have also upcycled blank envelopes that come with junk mail, and the simple act of opening an envelope is so fun.
My daughter likes to include our address and draw a stamp at the righthand corner of the envelope!
Here are suggested materials for creating a card and letter writing station at home:
- Envelopes
- Mini envelope template
- Upcycled blank envelopes
- Toy Mailboxes
- Joann Fabrics Small Wood Toy Mailbox – This is what we have; light sanding with fine sandpaper required prior to use.
- DIY mailboxes
- 15 Pretend Play Mailbox ideas (Housing a Forest)
- Felt Valentine Play Set (Imagine Our Life)
- Art cart
- White 3-tier rolling cart via Michaels – This is what we have.
- HollyHome 3-tier service cart via Amazon
- Art materials (Adjust contents depending on your child’s age; younger children generally need fewer options)
- Scrap paper (to reduce paper waste)
- Colorful construction paper
- Colorful pens, glitter gel pens, etc.
- Stickers
Special memories through handmade cards and letters
That all being said, we have been passing notes to each other well before having a toy mailbox.
We have left letters on each other’s bed, desk, and my daughter’s lunchbox.
The most important factor is to carve out a few minutes in creating a sweet surprise!
Teaching begins with us parents modeling reading and writing.
Then, we can follow the child’s interests and let them learn at their own pace.
In all languages, literacy can be encouraged in a fun, relevant, and child-led way that is also meaningful for family bonding!
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Feel free to leave a comment with any concerns or thoughts about your family’s learning journey, and I’ll try my best to find a solution for you.
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Sandy says
You’re such a hands on parent 😭. Leaving inspired and equipped! Thanks!
Betty says
Thank you for taking the time to write, Sandy! I hope the ideas can be helpful!